“Look, I know you don’t want to go back,” he says. He starts out strong, confident, but by the end his words are jittery and sound a bit like a head of lettuce going through the garbage disposal.
She doesn’t say anything but answers with a slight dip of her head and a tightening of her lips. It’s a gesture that acknowledges the need for a response but only just.
“I’m sorry, I–” he breaks off, not sure what to say. He’s actually quite articulate, usually, but for him conversation is a two-person sport and he doesn’t know how to play by himself. “Anyway, thanks. I think it’s the right thing to do.”
He reaches out and grips her shoulder briefly and barely restrains himself from rubbing her arm. She hates it when he does that. Hates it so much that her usually bright face darkens with what could be called rage and she’ll swat his hand away with real force. But most of the time he can’t help himself. It just seems like the kind of thing a husband should do.
With a sigh he leans back into the train seat and lets his forehead fall against the window. He knows he should be interested in what’s flying past. Small towns with clumps of rotting buildings interspersed with clean homes sporting new plastic siding. New developments that have all the personality and diversity of a squad of cadets. Office parks that make him shiver with the thought of being trapped behind a desk all day, as he knows he inevitably will be. And, his favorite, and hers too, though he’s not going to mention it now, a few tracks of land untouched by bulldozers or lawnmowers. The gently swaying grass and crazy-quilt of weeds and flowers reminders her of home. And reminds him of her.
But there’s no enjoyment in the view now. He can never focus when she’s mad at him. Another quick glance at her face reveals no change in her mood. He barely suppresses a grimace, more at himself than anything else. She has a right to be upset, he knows, and he should give her some room. After all, he’s taking her back to his family.
To the lions’ den. That’s what she calls it. She has other terms for it, but they’re even less polite. But all the more deserved.
Finally eternity passes and the conductor’s voice howls out of the speakers that their stop is coming up. He stands up quickly and winces at the tightness in his neck. Serves me right for leaning against the window for a couple of hours, he thinks. He fishes the bags out of the racks overhead and throws hers down next to her. For a minute he thinks she’s not going to respond, but then with a sigh and a straightening of her shoulders she grabs the bag and pulls it into her lap.
She meets his eyes and as she does so he feels a flood of relief. She’s not happy about this, not by any measure, but at least his partner his back, the other end of his circuit reconnected.
Moments later they’re standing at the streetside, rubbing their hands together to ward off the cold.
“So, I guess they’re not coming?” she ventures, with a touch of exasperation.
“I guess not,” he answers. “Should have expected it, I guess. But you can never tell. Last time we rented a car and that was a huge problem.”
“Last time . . . ” she starts, but doesn’t finish. He knows what she means though. Last time had not been a pleasant visit.
With the sort of fuss usually reserved for the DMV or traffic court, they manage to secure a car and shortly find themselves parked in front of the house. It’s the kind of house that can be forgotten in a moment, a sort of neutral color that’s impossible to describe. Tan? Mauve? Something like that. The drapes twitch in the front room and they know they’ve been spotted.
“Well,” he says, and they climb out of the car.
After a flurry of awkward hugs, handshakes and an assortment of clasps and clutches (the ingredients of real human contact, warmth, physical closeness, and so forth, have always been a little spotty in his family), they’re standing in the main room, shrugging out of their coats. The room looks as it has for the better part of a decade. Two walls dominated on top by windows and on bottom by a sectional couch. The other has the TV and a set of double sliding doors that manage to make the whole room seem cheap rather than elegant. Sliding doors don’t really belong on carpet. Or, in his wife’s opinion, anywhere at all.
He steals a glance at her, and in between polite smiles he sees the stress in her face and the guardedness in her eyes. Like him, she has one foot in this moment and one in the past. And neither is on very firm ground.
“Well, aren’t we glad y’all are here,” his mom says, her arms folded and eyes bright with the reflection of the smile on her face. He smiles, really smiles, in response. Maybe this time it will be different, he thinks with a small glimmer of hope.
“We’re glad to be here,” he says, sliding his arm around his wife’s shoulders. It wasn’t particularly true, but he hoped that it would be at some point.
Dinner starts on a high note as well. The table is too small for them all, but it’s always been that way. The other siblings are stabbing each other with forks under the table, the rolls are placed on a shelf next to the table, and someone is missing a glass, but overall it’s a good spread. His wife even laughs, really laughs, at one point when his little sister is saying something about her history class.
But it doesn’t last long. He should have known better than to hope that it might. These times always start to fall apart because of something small, something insignifcant that should be forgotten and brushed aside. But his family can’t seem to ever do that.
This time, like most times, it’s his stepdad. One of the younger siblings interrupted him, and his stepfather is off on a harangue about how disrespectful she is. But then it gets worse. Phrases like “dumb as a rock” and “like a dog” pop up. His wife’s hand is grabbing his forearm under the table and he knows that if he doesn’t speak up she’s going to draw blood.
“Hey,” he starts, “c’mon, it’s not that bad. It’s just a conversation.”
Silence settles on the table. His stepfather’s head swivels in his direction and he feels his world lurch out from underneath him. This is no longer the safe home that he grew up him. This is the home that he came back to last time. And should never have returned to.
“I don’t need you to correct me in my own house,” his stepfather says and pauses. He shares a tense heartbeat with everyone else at the table, and then his stepfather continues.
“You sure have changed since you left, and it’s a damn shame.”
“Oh, c’mon,” he answers his stepfather. He’s heard this particular line before and he’s tired of it.
“You watch your tongue,” his stepfather snarls and points a finger at his face, cocked like a gun.
“It’s true,” his mom chimes in. “You have changed.”
He glances back and forth, from mom to stepdad, and a sick feeling roils his stomach. His heart is beating too fast and it’s echoing through his head like a gong. He’s been here before. Many times before. He knows what he should, what he always has done. Acquiese. Deflect with humor. Whatever it takes to defuse the situation.
“Ever since getting married,” his mom says.
“Yep,” his stepfather adds, “this wife of yours–“
He doesn’t think consciously of his next steps. He can’t trace his steps back to the moment when he decided to explode up out of his chair, to swat his stepfather’s hand aside like an annoying fly. All he knows is that he’s now standing over him, shoulders tight with range, and now it’s his finger in his stepfather’s face.
“No, you listen,” he starts, but then pauses. He’s breathing hard, he knows, and not thinking clearly. Some small part of his mind is screaming at him to sit down, to back down, but he’s through listening. The anger and bitterness of years wells up inside him and threatens to break through. He has a thousand angry things he wants to say, words of accusation and rancor.
But he knows that if he starts he won’t stop. And there’s really only one thing to say.
“You’re right, I have changed.” He locks eyes with his mother for a brief moment.
He grabs his wife’s hand and she’s already standing. They don’t have to communicate at this point. He reaches out a ruffles the hair of his brother sitting next to them, winks to his sister across the table, and they walk out of the house.
Behind him he can hear his mother crying. He can hear his stepfather yelling. Plates and glasses crashing. But it’s all behind him. For good.